Express concerns, ask questions, and set limits, when necessary Sometimes parents are uncomfortable with some of the teenager’s friends. Parents may feel that this person is a not positive influence. Parent need to talk about their concerns with their son or daughter, Teach him or her how to think about relationships. Be open and listen to what your son or daughter has to say about the friend. If the relationship makes the parents anxious, also talk about this. It is better not to forbid a friendship, unless there is danger involved.